Sunday, June 7, 2009

Matchmaking Tips For Women- The First Date

Getting ready for the first date. You might be stressing all day about the details of what to wear. Things like your earrings, shoes and a handbag. Guys don't really care about the details at first. He will be looking at your face and your breasts.

As the evening progresses, yes, he will begin to notice the details such as your earrings, shoes, etc. He won't be totally naïve when it comes to fashion. As long as you don't come from the gym, you don't need to run out and get a Chanel suit.

Ladies, you all have something great about you. If you have legs, get them out there. Don't cover them up. Always show off your best asset-albeit tastefully.

On the flip side, don't call attention to the assets you don't love about yourself. If you get a compliment about your big blue eyes, take it. Don't tell him you might be unhappy with your lips or ears. Otherwise, guess what. He will be looking at your worse assets all night and focusing on that.

Makeup. Ladies, it's nice to wear makeup, but don't show that this first date is a special occasion, if anything, err on the side of too little makeup rather than too much. Otherwise, your first date will feel like he isn't getting an accurate view of what you really look like. What goes through the minds of men, according to a national matchmaking survey, is...if she wears this much makeup on a date, I wonder what she looks like in the morning without any. Be careful ladies.

Your hair should be blown out. Your hair is one of the first things a guy sees when he looks at you for the first time. That's because it's at his eye level. So, no pony tails, no frizzy disasters, just wear your hair down on the first date. You actually want him to fantasize about running his fingers through your hair. Blow your hair out yourself or go to a salon and have it done the right way.

Don't wear your work clothes out on the first date. Even if you wear sexy clothes to work, you won't look fresh after you have worn them all day. He might see wrinkles, sweat stains, and even the smell of coffee or lunch and this can have havoc on your best intentions. If it's not possible to go home and change, then bring a change of clothes to the office and change before you go out on your first date.

Lastly, make sure your outfit matches the restaurant you are going to. If you are going to a five star restaurant and he shows up in a nice suit, you don't want to show up in jeans, even if they make your butt look amazing!! Men prefer you wear a skirt instead of pants, especially if you have killer legs. Single men on a first date want the woman to look feminine. That's the stats on what to wear. So, wear a skirt, it's sexy, festive and shows him you put some thoughts into the first date.

Ladies, your homework assignment is to organize and bring to your office a date outfit and make sure you are ready for him when he calls you for the first date.

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1 comment:

  1. A true relationship comes from the heart and the more you love someone the more beautiful they become.